Close your mind’s eyes for a moment and imagine with me, if you will, being on a boat on the water. You feel the wind, cool and sharp on your face, and every so often the ocean spray refreshes you with tiny droplets. You smell the salt, your hair blows back, and your worries are a distant horizon in the rear view.
At every instant, when traversing waves in your vessel of choice (mine would be an agile speedboat), you’re bringing a boat into new water. You are a pioneer in foreign territory as the intrusive, uninvited hull slices into the calm water, displacing it. A boat perpetually ventures into the fresh, unbroken unknown as the standing wave rises to meet the bow, forming crests which tumble upon themselves, creating white foam and bubbles, trailing away from the site of injury/impact, and before you can mourn the glass water that was, the boat pushes further unapologetically, always launching into fresh water, peaking, breaking, foaming, and replenishing. Constantly, continuously, for as long as you ride that boat in our visualization. “Transverse waves rise astern and move away from the boat parallel to its direction of travel. Diverging waves course out in a V shape behind the boat. Where the waves converge, two lines of standing crests persist at an unchanging angle. We think of these as the boat’s wake.” (Annie Dillard, For the Time Being) You can see the water resisting the displacement futilely; you can see the spilling foam just behind it, and bubbles breaking and dispersing, unendingly. Collisions, interactions, remnants, repeat.
We live and move, exerting our force upon the world, as a speedboat (or canoe or yacht, or dinghy if you’re nasty) bow parts water. The force we exert on the world is met when the world pushes back on us with an equal and opposite force, we feel it, there is resistance, yet we persist. We split the crest of the present in every moment we interact and exert our force on the world. We leave a wake behind us, a legacy, for the force of the world that rose to meet us. If you do it right, no one will be the same when you’re done with them.
One of my favorite Garth Brooks songs postulates, “You know a dream is like a river ever changin’ as it flows and a dreamer’s just a vessel that must follow where it goes. Trying to learn from what’s behind you and never knowing what’s in store makes each day a constant battle just to stay between the shores.” I’m the captain of my life; I’m navigating whether to steer or go with the flow. In my speedboat, whether to accelerate, or let it ride… the choice is mine. All of the choices are mine. I have that power.
Quantum interference principles indicate that waves can interfere with themselves to either amplify themselves or quiet themselves. I love the possibility that we don’t just need to be a predictable wave of energy at our given amplitude and wavelength experiencing the same crests and troughs forever. We have the power to disrupt the inertia of the lives we’ve been living, to change where we end up and how we reflect on the world. We can interrupt old habits and patterns of thinking to reawaken fresh, conscious choices in our daily lives.
Inertia is the property of matter to exist in a state of rest or uniform motion in a straight line, unless that state is acted upon by an external force. Inertia is the tendency to stay the same or remain unchanged. This is the daily rat race of our lives, the hamster wheel we exist in running futilely, that straight line causing mass despair, anxiety, depression, and hopelessness. The struggle is part of the trap of that straight line. Price Pritchett encourages readers of his You2 book to “search out and vigorously employ new behaviors.” What keeps you in that straight line are the beliefs you hold and thoughts you think that lead to your decisions. What has worked for you in the past is the key to maintaining your current level of performance because it is what got you there, perpetuating that rat race. If you want to break out of it, you must do something different, choose differently, think differently, and behave differently. You have the power to change that straight line. “You have the potential, the resources are available, the opportunity is there. What has been missing is your decision to go for it.” (Price Pritchett, You2)
If we can interfere with our own energy wave, we can have an impact on it. Through practice, we can learn the controls to have the precise impact we want to have on our lives. By reverse-engineering the current reality we are in to determine the thoughts we are thinking, we can throw a spanner in the works, choose to think new thoughts, and change our current reality into, hopefully, a better one. We’re not the same wave of energy anymore. We’re changed. We changed ourselves when we realized we had the power to do that. And we’ve learned a new skill of the power to control and direct our own energies. Quantum interference. Boom.
I love glitter. My favorite color of glitter is iridescent white. I allowed myself to follow a white rabbit down the rabbit hole to learn what, exactly, iridescence, was. It turns out, iridescence occurs as surfaces gradually appear to change color as the angle of observation and angle of illumination changes. Said another way, things change when the way you look at them from another perspective and you change how you look at them from that other perspective. Wave interference occurs and suddenly, riding a crest of a pink light wave which just perfectly syncs with a blue light wave to peach to green to purple like a brilliant Australian opal, and none of those colors are sequentially next to each other in the spectrum. The light dances. I love thinking that we can become more iridescent and allow ourselves to shine brighter and with more color; our colors can sing, just by changing how we look at ourselves. Changing our angle of observation (nonjudgmental awareness) and moving to another seat to see a new perspective from a different angle and changing the angle of illumination (enlightenment) makes things iridescent. You can choose how you want to look at things. Everything can be iridescent glitter if you want it to be. If that’s how you want to see the world. It’s light diffraction. Science. I freaking love that.
You’re not just the wave, not just the object made of matter traveling through space uniformly. You can also be the external force that smacks you upside your own head. That interferes with the trajectory of your life currently spiraling into predictability. You can change how you reflect and how you are in the world by making new choices. Choice is power. How many people even consider challenging their decision making to arrive at new answers? Nothing changes if nothing changes. If you want more or different, you must do more or different. Disrupting the inertia of your life means overcoming resistance to change and creating positive momentum toward your definition of improvement. Identifying weak signals, plugging into new trends, being curious to try new things, all of this is innovation that can lead to improved results in your life. Disruptors can turn entire industries and institutions, even antiquated ways of doing things, on their heads.
Disrupt inertia. Make new choices. Quantumly interfere with yourself. Leave a wake. Exert a force on this world. See everything with a pearlescent lens. Live your best life. Steer yourself where your dreams are.